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It’s Friday night, and you’re eyes are darting around the dance floor, prowling for your lioness. There she is! Your heart rate increases. You make your way over. She looks your way, eyes lock, don’t look away!

Good job, that was close. You get in, get her number, and get out like a bank robber with a bag full of money. It’s all high-fives back in your circle of buddies. You did it, mission accomplished.

But, now what?!

What is the best place to take a first date?

This is a very common concern among men: “Where do I take her?” “How much should I spend?” “Does she like Thai food?” “Is Friday night right for a first date?”

The most important thing to remember: the location is completely irrelevant.

I know that sounds cliche and frustrating, but it’s true. Ask any of your female friends or relatives, and they’ll tell you they much rather go grocery shopping with a fun and interesting guy than go to a fancy restaurant with a nervous and boring clamshell.

In fact, I’ve literally taken women along with me while running errands as a “first date.” It gives both of us a chance to experience each other in everyday situations. It’s less intimidating. No rules. No awkward silences. It’s alive and a live show.

You’re simply riffing off each other’s energy, and no one knows what’s coming next. You’re moving around in an open world with infinite opportunities and possibilities for exciting moments.

Doesn’t that sound much more exciting than being shackled and handcuffed to a corner booth, while you watch each other chew your food? I’ve never seen the value in going through the traditional motions of a scripted dinner-and-a-movie date. Those feel so restricting and overdone: “You look nice.” “Thanks.” “Is your salad good?” “Yes. Is yours?” “Yes.”…blah, blah, blah…ZZZZZZZ.

I want to interact with a woman in a variety of situations to see how she handles herself and if we can enjoy each other’s company anytime, anywhere.

So, how do you initiate this type of “date”? It’s easy: Just say playfully, “Hey, I’m going to run some errands, and you’re coming with me.” If you had any kind of connection at all when you first met, she’ll come along.

Now, it’s all up to you. No matter where you take her, make it a good time. I guarantee if you can make a memorable experience out of grocery shopping or buying a new coffee table, there will be plenty more dates after the first.

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